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Do Dogs Mourn? Understanding Canine Grief

Exploring how dogs experience and express grief when losing a companion.

By Sneha Tete, Integrated MA, Certified Relationship Coach
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Do Dogs Mourn? Understanding Canine Grief and Loss

The bond between a dog and their companion—whether human or another pet—runs deep. When that bond is severed through death, our canine companions experience a profound sense of loss. Recent scientific research has provided compelling evidence that dogs do indeed mourn, displaying behavioral and emotional patterns that mirror human grief. Understanding these responses helps pet owners provide the compassionate support their grieving dogs need during difficult times.

The Science Behind Canine Mourning

For years, anecdotal evidence suggested that dogs experienced grief when losing a companion. However, it wasn’t until recently that researchers conducted rigorous scientific studies to document and validate these observations. A landmark study published in Scientific Reports surveyed 426 Italian adults who had owned at least two dogs, with one having passed away while the other survived. The results provided the first documented scientific evidence of grief in domestic dogs.

The findings were striking: approximately 86 to 90 percent of dogs that experienced the death of another canine companion living in the same household showed recognizable signs of grief. This widespread behavioral response suggests that mourning is not an anomaly but a genuine emotional response to loss in dogs. According to Federica Pirrone, an animal behavior expert at the University of Milan who led the research, “Dogs are highly emotional animals who develop very close bonds with the members of the familiar group. This means that they may be highly distressed if one of them dies, and efforts should be made to help them cope with this distress.”

Recognizing Signs of Grief in Dogs

Dogs express their grief through noticeable behavioral and emotional changes. Pet owners and veterinarians can identify several key indicators that a dog is mourning the loss of a companion:

Common Behavioral Changes

When a dog loses a companion, the surviving dog may exhibit multiple behavioral shifts that can last anywhere from two to six months:

  • Decreased playfulness: Dogs that were previously active and engaged in play may become noticeably less interested in toys or interactive games.
  • Appetite loss: Many grieving dogs eat significantly less, with studies showing that between 36 to 83 percent of dogs reduce their food consumption after losing a companion.
  • Increased sleep: Grieving dogs often sleep more than usual, appearing lethargic and lacking energy.
  • Seeking increased attention: Paradoxically, while dogs may be less playful, they often become more clingy and seek constant reassurance from their owners.
  • Increased fearfulness: Dogs may show heightened anxiety and fear responses to situations they previously handled well.
  • Changes in vocalization: Some dogs vocalize more, while others become quieter and more withdrawn.
  • Disorientation: Surviving dogs may appear confused, especially in areas where they spent time with their deceased companion.

Emotional Indicators

Beyond behavioral changes, dogs display emotional patterns consistent with grief. These include reduced enthusiasm for life, withdrawal from family members, and a general dampening of their usual personality. In extreme cases, grieving dogs may experience significant weight loss and show signs of depression that concern their owners.

Factors That Intensify Grieving Responses

Not all dogs grieve with equal intensity. Research has identified specific factors that strengthen the mourning response in surviving dogs. Dogs that had close, amicable relationships with their deceased companions and regularly shared resources like food showed stronger signs of grief. This suggests that the quality and depth of the relationship between the two dogs significantly influences the intensity of the grief response.

Interestingly, the amount of time two dogs had spent together did not significantly impact the surviving dog’s grief response, indicating that relationship quality matters more than duration. Additionally, whether or not the surviving dog saw the body of the deceased companion had no significant effect on their mourning behavior, suggesting that dogs may not require closure in the way humans do.

The Owner’s Influence on Canine Grief

An important finding from recent research reveals that a dog’s grief response may be partially influenced by their owner’s emotional state. Dogs whose owners were significantly affected by the death of the companion showed more pronounced grief symptoms. This reflects the deep emotional connection dogs have developed with their human caretakers.

“Dogs have become extremely sensitive to human communicative gestures and facial expressions,” explains Federica Pirrone. Dogs are remarkably attuned to their owners’ emotional states and may respond to the owner’s sadness, anger, or psychological trauma surrounding the loss. Through a process called social referencing, dogs modify their behavior in accordance with their owner’s emotional reactions, potentially amplifying their own grief responses.

However, researchers found that the attachment levels between owner and dog did not affect the overall results, indicating that the data was not skewed by owners projecting their own grief onto their pets. This careful analysis strengthens the evidence that dogs are genuinely experiencing grief rather than simply mirroring their owners’ emotions.

Grief in Other Animal Species

Dogs are not alone in their capacity to mourn. Other animals demonstrating grief include dolphins, great apes, elephants, and various bird species. These animals have been observed participating in rituals around death, touching and investigating deceased individuals’ bodies. For example, mother elephants stand guard over stillborn babies for extended periods, lowering their heads and ears while moving slowly and quietly in a manner consistent with depression. Such observations across diverse species suggest that mourning may be an evolutionarily significant response to loss among social mammals and birds.

Supporting Your Grieving Dog

If your dog is mourning the loss of a companion, several strategies can help them cope with their grief:

  • Maintain routine: Keep feeding schedules, exercise routines, and daily activities as consistent as possible to provide stability during this uncertain time.
  • Provide extra attention: Spend quality time with your grieving dog, offering comfort through gentle interaction and calm companionship.
  • Manage your own emotions: Be mindful of your own grief response, as your dog will be sensitive to your emotional state. Try to maintain a calm, reassuring presence.
  • Avoid forcing play: Don’t push your dog into activities they’re not ready for. Allow them to grieve at their own pace.
  • Consider gradual changes: If you eventually decide to introduce a new pet, do so gradually and only when both you and your surviving dog are ready.
  • Monitor appetite and health: If your dog’s appetite loss is severe or prolonged, consult your veterinarian to rule out underlying health issues.
  • Allow expression: Permit your dog to explore areas where they spent time with their deceased companion if they wish to do so.

When to Seek Professional Help

While grief is a normal response, severe or prolonged symptoms may warrant professional intervention. If your dog shows signs of deep depression, stops eating entirely, becomes aggressive, or displays self-harming behaviors lasting more than six months, consult your veterinarian or a certified animal behaviorist. They can rule out medical issues and recommend appropriate interventions, which may include behavioral modification techniques or, in some cases, medication to manage severe anxiety or depression.

Research Limitations and Future Studies

While recent research provides the first scientific documentation of canine grief, scientists acknowledge certain limitations. The study relied on self-reported data from dog owners, which may be subject to interpretation bias. Social anthropologist Samantha Hurn from the University of Exeter notes that owners may interpret their dogs’ behaviors through the lens of their own grief experience.

To address these limitations, researchers cross-referenced reports and used statistical analysis to verify that owners were genuinely witnessing grief-like states rather than projecting their emotions onto their pets. Additionally, researchers note that while dogs may respond to the loss of an attachment figure who provided safety and security, distinguishing between grief over death and distress over loss of an affiliate remains challenging.

The research team concludes that while data suggests dogs experience grief, further research is needed to fully understand and confirm grief and mourning behaviors in dogs. Future studies might employ more objective measures, such as neuroimaging or hormonal analysis, to better understand the neurobiological basis of canine grief.

Frequently Asked Questions About Dog Mourning

Q: Can dogs understand that death is permanent?

A: Dogs likely don’t fully comprehend that death is permanent. Instead, they experience the separation from their companion and the disruption to their daily routine and social structure, which triggers grief-like responses.

Q: How long does it take for a dog to get over the loss of a companion?

A: Grief in dogs typically lasts between two to six months, though this varies by individual. Some dogs may show residual behavioral changes even after this period, while others recover more quickly.

Q: Should I get a new dog right away to help my grieving dog?

A: It’s generally best to wait until your surviving dog has progressed through their grief. Introducing a new dog too quickly may complicate their mourning process and stress both animals.

Q: Do dogs grieve the loss of human family members?

A: Yes, dogs can experience grief when losing human companions, though the research has primarily focused on loss of canine companions. The same behavioral and emotional patterns may appear when dogs lose their primary human caregiver.

Q: Can I help my dog process their grief faster?

A: You cannot rush grief, but you can support your dog by maintaining routines, providing comfort, and being emotionally stable. Allow your dog to grieve at their own pace while monitoring for any concerning behavioral changes.

Q: Is there medication for grieving dogs?

A: In severe cases of depression or anxiety, a veterinarian may recommend medication. However, medication should only be considered when grief symptoms are extreme or when behavioral intervention alone is insufficient.

References

  1. Domesticated canines may grieve and mourn the loss of other household pets — Smithsonian Magazine. 2022-02-10. https://www.smithsonianmag.com/smart-news/domesticated-canines-may-grieve-and-mourn-the-loss-of-other-household-pets-180979648/
  2. Domestic dogs (Canis familiaris) grieve over the loss of a conspecific — Scientific Reports, Nature Publishing Group. 2022-02-16. https://www.nature.com/articles/s41598-022-05669-y
  3. Do Dogs Grieve the Loss of Another Dog? — Whole Dog Journal. 2022. https://www.whole-dog-journal.com/behavior/do-dogs-grieve-the-loss-of-another-dog/
  4. Companion Animal Mourning Project — ASPCA. 1996. This foundational study identified behavioral shifts in surviving dogs following companion loss.
Sneha Tete
Sneha TeteBeauty & Lifestyle Writer
Sneha is a relationships and lifestyle writer with a strong foundation in applied linguistics and certified training in relationship coaching. She brings over five years of writing experience to fluffyaffair,  crafting thoughtful, research-driven content that empowers readers to build healthier relationships, boost emotional well-being, and embrace holistic living.

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